Men N Things

I have to laugh that I get followers for my strange rants about guys. LoL. But I guess if someone likes it, that’s a good thing. 🙂

I’m currently talking to 4 guys. Dave, Blake, Nathan, and I don’t know the other guys’ name. Well…. Dave I thought was going to be my mister amazing everything told me the following:

Him: Oh really? Maybe we should have more dates. Haha. I do like you.
Me: I think we should….. were you not feeling good about me before?
Him: I was. I was hesitating since I am tired of the heartbreak.
Me: I haven’t been on Grindr since I met you. 🙂
Him: I haven’t been on it much either 🙂

It was kind of disheartening to hear that I was putting in more effort than he was. Yes yes yes I know, I jump into things MUCH faster than I should, but he gave me a feeling I haven’t had in a long time….. hope. I don’t know how or why or what makes him different.

Now you are going to say… “WHAT????, your talking about 4 guys and complaining about 1 not being interested in you???” No. I’m staying exclusive to him and kind of making friends out of the other guys. Before, it was more interest but now….. I want this guy. But I’m 10xs more scared to try anything after the things he said than I may have been before.

I really hope tomorrow will be a brighter day. I hope that on Thursday (my next date with him), I can let him know that I care and am interested just in him. Without coming on too strong and being creepy that is. I’m wondering though…. what would be some good calm, cool things to say without being a weirdo?

 

Met someone

I met a guy… And I like the things he says. I think he’s pretty cute. Redneck. Drinks more than I like and smokes. Doesn’t text me when he gets off or up in the morning. But it has only been one date. Lol. I decided I’m dating him exclusively cause I can’t handle two guys… Or more for that matter. He talks about wanting a relationship. He was worried how I would react to him smoking and him “getting fat”. He already has a tummy lol, but I told him it wouldn’t make a difference to me. He seemed to have liked that. Now I need to know… Is he bi?

I really do hope this goes well. Next date is in a week. He hasn’t checked his Grindr for days at a time and that intrigued me big time. And I tend to check and see if they are on Grindr and whether or not I’ve been texted and I figure that can ruin the relationship…. So I deleted Grindr. 🙂 I also made him a paper heart. To keep it… Not awkward, I wrote ” friend ” in the middle. That’s not weird on date one is it? To a guy I’ve talked to for two weeks? Lol.

Must not be to bad. We have another date planned. If it falls through at least I’ll understand why. Haha.